Who ever knew that there are so many
points to note when it comes to grooming for business and social events? Not
only what you choose to wear matters, but it all bogs down to the whole
package, including making a first impression.
James Brown actually quoted, ‘Hair is the first thing. And teeth the
second. Hair and teeth. A man got those two things, he’s got it all’. That
is indeed a hilarious quote, which is honestly, a great turn on for women! I
mean, good teeth and hair, I ain’t complaining J
Speaking of grooming, I got the chance
to attend a workshop on ‘Your Personal Impact’ by the ever so lovely and
talented, Ms Shiela Wong from Swet Image Professionals. Let me tell you, it was
a great session filled with interesting facts about grooming and business
etiquette.
Without a doubt, the word grooming
tends to side track to women, because naturally we love to look good. However,
this is not the case. Being in a corporate and business world, it does play an
important part for both men and women.
Ms Shiela, together with her
co-trainer Ms Cherrise, enlightened us on how to dress professionally, based on
the uniqueness of each individual. The women got to test the right colours and accessories
for them. Where else the men got the chance to know the right fit for neck ties
(which is a lot to know, really) and also the right colour shirts and pants to
wear.
I love colours, period! But of coz,
with my skin tone, I can’t just use any bold colours to work. I got to learn on
how to mix and match colours for my skin tone and body shape. I actually had to
remove my clothes (fret not! The activities for men were conducted outside the
room, thank god) and tried on a set of clothes which the trainer saw fit for
me. It was an experience!
The
best of grooming for both men and women, even for the Muslim ladies.
We also learnt about the right way to
greet our clients professionally and socially. The deal is, in Malaysia there
are a lot of titles to remember, such as Datuk, Datuk Seri, Tan Seri, etc. It
can get rather confusing. Not forgetting about the right etiquette and protocol
when in business and body language! That is one part which is utmost important.
It’s like going on a first date. Somehow rather you get the idea whether the
person likes you or can’t wait to get the hell out of there. It can be
frustrating at times.
The right way to exchange
business cards. There is a whole lot to learn!
Grooming and looking good is all about
having the right attitude, but at the same time, there is also a no-no dress
code and etiquette during working hours:
- Bad breath and body odour – Please use a deodorant and perfume. A must have!
- Wearing slippers in the office – This would actually ruin your reputation (like how Miley Cyrus did, if you know what I mean!)
- Miniskirts – Ladies, really now? Who do want to entice?
- Sheer blouses – The worst lot! At least wear a skin tone camisole
- Cartoon ties and socks – Are you kidding me? Even if you looked like Hugh Jackman. Wait a minute. Now that could be an exception J
- Bright coloured lipsticks and nail polish – Oh no! Guilty as charged!
- Foul languages – It ain’t cool people
Well, we could go on about the no-no’s
but all in all, it was an eye opener for all of us. A lot of people dress
according to their personality. Some are acceptable and some are not. When we
get into the corporate and business world, we need to sit and think how people could
easily judge us for who we are. Confidence, maturity, attitude and the right
body language will definitely take you far, and of coz with the right clothing
as well.
As our dear Ms Oprah Winfrey said (i’m
so in love with her hair, between), ‘I
finally realised that being grateful to my body was key to giving more love to
myself’. Could not agree more with you there, Ms. Winfrey (you go, girl!).
You have to love yourself and be confident. Only then the rest will be able to
see your inner beauty and personality.
By
ladymechanic
